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Things every young guy should know. and it seems to some of us ladies that some of us could use the same sort of advice, but how to meet good guys worth having. I don't have a clue. I guarantee it. I have been in more bad relationships than I care to think about. Any wise women out there who want to help out the lost ladies? Gardens in my mind never need water Castles in the air never have a wet basement Well made buildings are fractal -- equally intelligent design at every level of detail. Bright sparks remind others that they too can dance What I am looking for is looking for me too! pollinator. Location: Southern Arizona. Zone 8b. 15. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: I recall reading some advice on how to pickup guys: show up naked, bring beer" My opinions are barely worth the paper they are written on here, but hopefully they can spark some new ideas, or at least a different train of thought. 12 2. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: Pearl Sutton wrote: how to meet good guys worth having. I have been in more bad relationships than I care to think about. The solution to that is VERY simple although woman in your position never follow it . date a man who you find boring and are only marginally attracted to. You are attracted to men men who aren't good for you so you need to train yourself to be attracted to a "good guy", the problem with a good guy is he won't get your engine turned on. You can generally thank your abusive, absent or neglectful Dad for that. Pearl Sutton. steward & bricolagier. Posts: 15405. Location: SW Missouri. 17. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: Peter VanDerWal wrote: I recall reading some advice on how to pickup guys: "show up naked, bring beer" Actually, it's even easier than that to pick them up, the question is how to filter them out. So many men are looking for beautiful arm candy, or a house slave, they'll hit on anything that looks like it may be close. I am not arm candy material, so I get tagged for house slave, since I'm a busy type. It goes from "Oh cool, you can fix cars?" to "fix mine too, and what's for dinner, and why are there no clean towels?" And you want to believe a guy is actual interested in what do and know, when he just wants a house slave. What does a REAL guy say and do? How can we recognize them? I hear "be yourself" well, myself attracts men who want a house slave. Bonus if she can fix cars. I started this thread to see what wisdom there is out there, not just for me, but for all women. Would appreciate some good input. Gardens in my mind never need water Castles in the air never have a wet basement Well made buildings are fractal -- equally intelligent design at every level of detail. Bright sparks remind others that they too can dance What I am looking for is looking for me too! pollinator. Posts: 1518. Location: Southern Oregon. 19. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: Mark - that idea can totally backfire on you, it did on me. The father of my oldest child was the love of my life, he was a bad boy, and the relationship almost killed me. So I married a man completely different from him or so I thought, he was supposed to be the good guy, safe and dependable, but he wasn't. So then, I'm stuck in a relationship with a bad guy that I'm not attracted to. That's not good. As it turned out, the father of my oldest child grew into a better person, and my husband devolved into a worse one. That being said, I tell my daughters to not be so concerned with finding a good man, just build a good life for yourself. Living a life that requires no vacation. Posts: 9002. Location: Victoria British Columbia-Canada. 10. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: Don't hide in the shadows and don't stay home. Men are going to approach women that they find approachable. I'm sure there are millions of nice women out there who don't meet men, because they don't find themselves in settings where that's possible or likely. . If you go out to public places and you are approachable, men will find you. Then you have some sorting to do, because any man who approaches you has already indicated his interest. And his first thought, before approaching, may very well have been that he would really like to breed with this particular woman. That's normal and healthy. Now you just have to make sure that his plans go beyond that. When it comes to sorting, you may want to start with determining just how single he is. Married men and those who are otherwise attached, often present as single in these situations. 7. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: I would like to say that if a young lady knows of a fellow that she really likes- she ought to make the effort to be friends with him. If you grew up in the same community, have similar values, went to the same church/gathering places, and you really like who he has become and who he is- make a real effort to be friends with him or his family. Let the family know that you really like their son and they will likely approve of you already. It's not enough to just smile and wink at a guy you're interested in that runs in your circles- you really have to put out the effort to show him that you like him. Now, if he gets interested in you as dating material, I didn't say keep doing this. That is the time to disappear and let him pursue you. let him show you how much he wants you. There is a game to be played and I don't think women put enough effort into the game and think that men are going to do all the work. Dale Hodgins. Posts: 9002. Location: Victoria British Columbia-Canada. 19. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: Don't look for fixer uppers. The guy is going to be whoever he is. You may find that there's a guy with many good qualities, but there's something about him that you really really don't like. Resist the temptation to get fixated on those good qualities, with a plan to renovate him later. It's not likely to happen the way you think. He's going to remain the way he is, and you may find this incredibly irritating. Dale Hodgins. Posts: 9002. Location: Victoria British Columbia-Canada. 5. Number of slices to send: Optional 'thank-you' note: I have vast experience, as the subject and audience for this particular brand of oratory. And that's how I see it. I don't see it happening as a response to anything that I've done or said. It's more like the person producing it is a pressure cooker, and what they're cooking is some bitchiness. And every once in awhile the pressure relief valve lets some out, so she doesn't pop. I'm sure that there are times when there is a reason to complain. But I think it's important to not make that such a constant in a relationship, that it becomes white noise to the listener.













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